Grace Durden

March 3, 1945 ~ November 22, 2022

Born in: Springfield, Missouri
Resided in: Arlington, Texas

Our beloved Grace Ann Mires Durden passed away peacefully on November 22nd, 2022 in the presence of her family. She was born on March 3rd, 1945 in Springfield, Missouri, to Ralph and Mary Lee Mires. She lived most of her adult life in Fort Smith, Arkansas, where she raised her two sons, built her career, and developed lifelong friendships. She was a devoted wife, mother, stepmother and grandmother. She was a friend to all.

Grace Ann’s greatest accomplishment and contribution was her capacity to connect with every person she met. She had a unique ability to make people feel heard, seen, and understood as she sought to find commonality in everyone she met. She was able to find a point where she could connect with people in a way making them feel her love and attention. Her concern for all people was genuine and uniquely special to her.

She is survived by her husband, Robert (Bud) Rowland Durden; her son, Dr. Michael Dortch Coleman Jr. and wife, Sonya Carter Coleman of Nashville, Tennessee; her son, Dr. Christopher Matthew Coleman and wife, Lucy Buergler Coleman of Fort Smith, Arkansas; step-son, Robert Rowland Durden II and wife, Beth Rall Durden of Califon, New Jersey; Step-daughter, Marilyn Durden Guion and husband, David Grantham Guion of Houston, Texas; Step-son, Brandon Wilson Durden and wife, Sarah Covey Durden of Fayetteville, Arkansas; Step-daughter, Michaelann Taylor Durden of Austin, Texas; brother, Ralph Elbert Mires and wife, Janice Ebersole Mires of Overland Park, Kansas; brother, David Lee Mires and partner, Shirley Bryant of Springfield, Missouri; Her nephew, Nathan Ellis Mires and wife, Jennifer Loeper Mires of Leawood, Kansas; her niece, Anne Ralston Mires Locke and husband, Jonah William Locke of Prairie Village, Kansas; her niece, Sarah Elizabeth Mires Dodd and husband, Kyle Patrick Dodd of Olathe, Kansas; her grandchildren, Dr. Madison Mires Coleman, Carolina Carter Coleman, Campbell Riddick Coleman and Bennett Lawrence Coleman; Lucy Katherine Coleman, Ellis Sicard Coleman and Vivian Grace Coleman; Robert (Tripp) Rowland Durden III; Ford Grantham Guion and Graham David Guion; Harper Ann Durden and Mack Charles Durden.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Ralph and Mary Lee Mires.

Grace Ann graduated valedictorian from Parkview High School in 1963. In the previous year, she was crowned Parkview High School Viking Festival Homecoming Queen. She graduated from the University of Arkansas in 1968 with a Bachelor of Arts in Elementary Education. Grace Ann was a member of Chi Omega Sorority and served as AWS State Treasurer in 1965. In 1964 she was selected as a member of the first Angel Flight on the UofA campus organized and sponsored by the Arnold Air Society in conjunction with the Air Force ROTC.
Grace Ann taught first grade at Bethesda Elementary School in Durham, North Carolina from 1967 until 1969. The following year she was appointed director of Grace Baptist Preschool.

After moving to Fort Smith, Arkansas, Grace Ann took a position as a tennis instructor with the Fort Smith Parks and Recreation in 1976. The following year, she was recruited by Arkansas Best Corporation to serve in various capacities. After 27 years of service to the company, she finished her career in 2004.

Grace Ann married the love of her life, Bud Durden, in 2008. It was a fairytale romance beginning with their initial meeting in college in 1963. However, they did not meet again until 1976, when they serendipitously found themselves living in the same neighborhood in Fort Smith. Before they could reconnect, once again, life took them in different directions as Bud resettled in Arlington, Texas. In 2003, their story continued when Bud noticed her photograph at the home of a mutual college friend. He finally seized the opportunity to ask her for a first date beginning a long overdue, late-in-life, whirlwind love story. After moving to Arlington, she was selflessly devoted to Brandon and Michaelann’s lives. She became a positive influence at a critical time for them and loved them like her own children. Grace Ann and Bud were together for the remainder of her life. Bud gave her twenty years of great happiness, traveling the world together and making these, by far, her best years.

Always honoring the accomplishments of her family, she was never one to boast her own. In the spirit of capturing her character, her family would like to share some of her achievements. In 1955, she was the Missouri State Roller Skating Champion. She went on to place 5th in the National Junior Olympic Competition. As an avid USTA Team Tennis player, she was a member of an Arkansas state championship team that went on to compete in the Southern Sectional Championships. Her love for the sport is a legacy continued through her children and grandchildren. She dedicated much of her adult life to community service. She served many years as a member of the Fort Smith Junior League. In 2011, she was selected to serve on the Super Bowl XLV Committee in Arlington, Texas. Until her passing, Grace Ann was a loyal member of the Board of Directors of the North Central Texas chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association.

Apart from her community service and athletic excellence, Grace Ann’s dedication to her friends is noteworthy. She was known for her many friend groups including The Bluffaloes, The Quacks, The Birthday Bunch, The Alzheimer’s Birthday Group, Book Club, The Neighborhood Gang and any other group of friends she could name. Grace Ann enjoyed float trips, her family’s lake house, and spending time with the ones she loved. Of all her honors, accomplishments, and achievements, she considered her role as grandmother to her twelve grandchildren to be her most rewarding adventure of all.

A memorial service will be held at 11:00 AM on Friday, December 2 at Wade Funeral Home in Arlington, Texas. There will be a Celebration of Life Service in Fort Smith, Arkansas at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the North Central Texas Alzheimer’s Association on their website or the charity of your choice.



Memorial Service: Friday, December 2, 2022 11:00 am

Wade Funeral Home and Crematory
4140 West Pioneer Parkway
Arlington, Texas 76013


Room: Chapel

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  1. CandleImageGrace Ann truly lit up the lives of anyone in her presence. Her sweet soul will continue to grace those that loved and cared for her with the beautiful memories they shared. You will be forever missed and remembered, sweet lady. Love, Gray

  2. I had only gotten to know Grace Ann over the last couple of years, through a mutual friendship with Diane Campbell. Grace Ann was a beautiful woman in so many ways. My love and condolences go out to Bud, her children, grandchildren and other family members. I have a particular memory of her that I will cherish until we reunite in Heaven.

  3. CandleImageWe are deeply saddened by Grace Ann’s passing. She was a wonderful woman—generous, kind, and gracious—and made such a positive difference in her community. Sending our love and prayers to Bud and all her family.

  4. Such a sweet lady…when she and Bud would come to NC in the summer to visit, we would often meet them for dinner. She always made my wife and daughter feel like the “most important people in the world.” Thinking of you and the family, Bud.

    Jeff & Pam Luther

  5. CandleImageEnjoyed visiting with Grace Ann while we were in Seaside! Beautiful lady and she will be missed! Condolences to all of her family!

  6. CandleImageGrace Ann, I will miss you so much girlfriend! You always hypnotized me with your amazing stories. My favorite was the one where you accidently attended the wrong baby shower. The “real” shower was further down the street. Suddenly you realized your mistake, but by then you had made good friends with everyone there. They all cheerfully fetched your gift giving you tons of hugs on your way out the door!
    If I was having a bad day GA would cheer me up by telling me, “Remember that you are smart and you are pretty.” Thank you for making me a better person. Love you.
    Your friend, Cindy Nelson

  7. CandleImageGrace Ann was a class act from start to finish! She was a devoted volunteer, wife, mother, grandmother and just overall stellar human! She was such a light in this world and I will be forever grateful for her friendship, wisdom and compassion. There will never be another Grace Ann, she was truly one of a kind. Rest in peace sweet friend, until we meet again.

  8. David and I were so sorry to hear the sad news about Grace Ann.
    She was always so young and beautiful looking with her blonde hair. A very sweet lady.
    Ours thoughts are with Bud and family.
    Love, Jody and David Deaderick

  9. Grace Ann’s family,
    I am deeply saddened to hear of her passing. She was the one that hired me @ ABF in Payroll in 1987. She was always so Kind & Fair to me. She will be missed dearly.
    Prayers for all the family.
    Venita Crowson

  10. Grace Ann was a beautiful girl and my first girlfriend in the eighth grade. She was the most popular girl in our age group. Very special person.
    She will rest in the arms of Jesus

  11. CandleImageTo honor a true southern lady full of Grace. We already miss you so and will continue our friendship in heaven. Love, Missy

  12. Grace Ann was a very nice and gracious lady. She will be missed by all who knew her. Our prayers are with Bud and all their family. Ron and Dagmar Polster

  13. CandleImageSaddened by Ms Grace Ann leaving this world but I know God has a great place for Her . Such a Great Lady .
    Prayers & Condolences from The Duplissey’s

  14. Bud, my dear friend; my sincere condolences to you and your family for your loss. I hope you and Grace Anne had many happy years together. J. O. Buckley

  15. It was devastating to get the sad news of the passing of Grace Ann. She was a wonderful, beautiful, brilliant woman. She has and always will have warm place in my heart for eternity.

  16. CandleImageBud, I wanted to express my heartfelt condolences for your wife’s passing. I never met her but have heard very amazing things about Grace Ann and your all’s relationship. My wife and I have prayed and prayed for her through this ordeal. Our thoughts are with you, Michealann, and the rest of your family for peace and comfort through this difficult time.

    George & Stephanie Wilson

  17. CandleImageI didn’t know Grace Ann well but I always wanted to know her better. When my family was struggling with my Fathers brutal Alzheimers journey I called Grace Ann remembering she was very involved with the Alzheimers Association. She was so gracious and helpful and I will never forget her kindness. I met Grace Ann on a group cruise and I was always struck by her beautiful smile and gorgeous hair. She always seemed to radiate love and friendliness. Her name was very apropos for such a lovely person. My condolences to Bud and all Grace Ann’s friends and family.

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